so theres no way of getting out? A couple of people said here that most start out as friends. A day or so later it was clear though shes in a relationship already but as far as conversation goes, its still smooth.
Its not impossible to transition from Friend to Lover but it ain't easy. It all comes down to how she sees you and how you fit in her life. If she's physically attracted to you, that makes your job a lot simpler. If she's mentally attracted to you, you can still escape the friendzone but now as you can guess, its starting to get complicated. Of course the idea is to not wind up there in the first place. The F2L route takes more time and effort but in the end, the relationship lasts longer. In this case, since she's already in a relationship, as Chris Rock so aptly put it: "Dick in storage" would best describe your status. Future lover material if you will. Being next up isn't so bad.. Stay in contact, but don't be too available. Play the outsider and give her your ear should she ever ask for it. Make sure though that she sees you successfully going after other women. No woman wants a man that no other woman wants. Strange but that how it works sometimes. For now? Move on. Do not ever become a "Cling-on". If you lose a woman's respect, you have lost that woman. Just a lil old school advice.
Awesome post. Yeah, ive moved on a lil, making some progress. This week was the first week for summer classes and my eyes have been wandering again that im starting to forget her ( i mean its summer, these girls be wearing lil to nothing out there now). Also what makes it worst was right off the bat she refused to give number. Although understandable at the time, her status has changed to "in a complicated relationship" which can mean anything (seriously, what does that mean). Lastly she refused to hangout without giving an explanation. So today I noticed this hot indian chick on the bus stop who was staring at me, she appears to go to the same college. She has the frame of Megan Fox in the first Transformers movie (sorry, thats the best I can come up with), nice fit, very pretty, in shape body wearing a little short tanktop .If I see her again ill try to talk to her as she gets off near my stop so it wouldnt be much to greet and walk with her if she allows me to. If it gets far, no handshake, I promise! I've also been working my skinny ass out this week. Trying to get some muscle again.
I will give minimal advice. Don't have a plan, that is all . Every long term relationship I have had came when I wasn't looking for it. Hottest woman I have ever become involved with was a model who picked me up in the bar I lived over on 1st ave after I dropped off my girlfriend to head to her parents for the weekend, I was just looking to get home and go to sleep. Of course I have spent $30K on divorce lawyers so there are the down sides too.
When I see/hear Indian I immediately think dot, not wagon burner but there is some room for confusion there.
I've seen a couple of Indian chicks that would make you blow the front door off your tighty whities, but it's sad how Indian women are forced to dress down and make themselves ugly. But not quite as sad as how American women are forced to turn themselves into painted whores just to walk down the street.
I think it goes without saying there are a few exceptions to every rule but there are definitely some ethnicities that work better as part of a mix rather than full blooded.
You've never heard that expression? Tropical as in get out a machete to get through the thatch. 70s bush as it were. _
