update in case anyone is still interested.... apparently she shot him in his sleep. then, before shooting herself, tried to stage it so she would fall in his lap. news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090708/ap_on_sp_fo_ne/fbn_mcnair_killed
It looks pretty obvious that she killed McNair and I'm not a big fan of conspiracy theories, but... Does anyone else find it odd that the investigation discovered trace gun residue on her left hand, made no mention of residue on her right hand, and ruled she died of a bullet wound to her right temple? Not trying to refuel the mostly asinine conspiracy fire but how the hell can she shoot herself in the right temple with her left hand?
The first shot to his head probably didn't kill him right away and she took a few more to finish the job. Man, that's brutal. What a fuckn' cunt whore.
McNair certainly made a big mistake in getting involved with this psycho bitch. She wanted to shoot herself and end up in his lap? She killed him when he was sleeping? What the fuck kind of black widow psycho shit is that?
Woa come on man... you have a wife and 4 young kids and you have a relationship with a girl 16 years younger then you and possibly another woman as well...!? at 36!?!? (I can understand after 50 years of marriage you are as bored as hell but not at 36!!!) I can't even imagine how his family must be feeling :S
Not that it should be expected, but it is obviously a possibility. Fucking around on your wife ALWAYS has negative consequences. Some foreseeable, some not. But everybody knows that nothing good can come of it. Yeah, that was an extreme example, but hopefully the point wasn't missed.
Throughout history, infidelity has never taken away from greatness. President John F Kennedy was one of the worst sex addicts to ever walk the planet.
http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/f...nair_had_longtime_affair_with_a_stripper.html News learns slain QB Steve McNair had longtime affair with a stripper BY Michael O'Keeffe DAILY NEWS SPORTS WRITER Friday, July 10th 2009, 4:52 AM Even as fans filed into the Tennessee Titans' LP Field Thursday, staring raptly at rolling video of Steve McNair's on-field heroics and writing condolence messages in large albums, a woman in Minnesota grieved alone, in her own way. The former business manager of a Minneapolis strip club told the Daily News that McNair had been a frequent visitor to the club and had an intimate and extramarital relationship with an exotic dancer for about six years. "She liked money and athletes," the former business manager said on condition of anonymity. "She went out with athletes before. She was one of those girls who said, 'You're married? You have kids? So what?' Lets have fun. "I can tell you that she was very upset when she learned that he had died," the former business manager added. While the pretty brunette mourned privately, Titans fans turned out Thursday to pay their last respects to the quarterback who became the face of the team after the Houston Oilers relocated to Nashville in 1997. Large crowds jammed into the Lewis & Wright Funeral Home in working-class north Nashville early Thursday morning to get a glimpse of the closed silver casket that contained his body. Thousands more - many wearing blue Tennessee jerseys sporting McNair's No.9 - attended the tribute at the Titans' stadium and a visitation and service at Mount Zion Baptist Church in White Creek, Tenn., remembering McNair for his football prowess and for his years of local charity work. "The whole community is in mourning for Steve," Tennessee State Rep. Brenda Gilmour said earlier this week. Gilmour, who represents north Nashville, said McNair had recently opened a breakfast-and-lunch restaurant in her district to provide jobs and inexpensive meals to her constituents. "He had the kind of personality that made you feel like a member of the family as soon as you met him," she said. Titans coach Jeff Fisher joined McNair's former teammates, including Al Del Greco and Jevon Kearse, at the funeral home early Thursday to say goodbye to McNair and spend a moment with his wife, Mechelle, and their four children. "He wasn't an overly vocal leader, but you knew every single play and every single snap that he was going to be there to help us win," Del Greco remembered. Nashville police said on Wednesday that McNair was fatally shot four times on the Fourth of July by his 20-year-old lover as he slept on a sofa in the downtown Nashville condo he rented with a friend. The woman, Sahel Kazemi, then turned the 9-mm semiautomatic she had purchased two days earlier on herself. Kazemi had been pulled over on suspicion of driving under the influence two days earlier, with McNair and the manager of McNair's restaurant in the passenger seats of the Cadillac Escalade the retired NFL star had helped her purchase. McNair, who declined to speak to Kazemi while the officer conducted his investigation, later bailed his girlfriend out of jail. Kazemi had told her family that McNair planned to divorce his wife and live with her, but the DUI arrest incident seemed to solidify Kazemi's fear that the relationship - and her hold on the wealth and glamour that came with dating a football star - was falling apart. According to police, Kazemi also believed McNair had been seeing yet another woman who wasn't his wife, and had followed the woman out of McNair's condo, although she did not confront her. If that weren't enough, Kazemi was also apparently having money troubles. Last Thursday at about 5 p.m., several hours after the arrest, Kazemi placed an ad on Craig's List to sell her furniture - including the same living-room sofa on which Kazemi and McNair would die. Shortly after placing the ad, Kazemi met a man interested in buying another car she owned in the parking lot of Dave & Buster's, the restaurant where she worked. The man didn't buy the car, a Kia, but he did sell Sahemi the gun she used to shoot McNair and herself for $100. Kazemi was born in Iran but moved to Turkey and then Jacksonville, Fla., when she was a little girl, after her mother's death. She was 16 when she moved to Nashville with then-boyfriend Keith Norfleet. Friends describe her as a fun and vivacious young woman, but by last Friday, Kazemi, known as Jenny to friends, was telling a friend that her life was "a ball of ---" and "I should just end it." McNair's death pulled back the veil on the secret lives of athletes, the ballplayers who are faithful husbands and fathers in public but have lovers and clandestine apartments on the side. But unlike Kazemi, the exotic dancer who dated McNair for six years knew how the game was played. She had no illusions that he would leave his wife for her. "They had an understanding," the former business manager said. "He was sitting in the VIP section of the club when she first met him. She made a beeline for him. She knew who he was. There are girls like that in clubs all over the country. They know sports and they know athletes," he added. "He would give her money for her rent or her car payments, or he would pay for plane tickets," the former business manager said. "She'd spend weekends with him. He would call and say, 'I'm going to be in Baltimore or Chicago or wherever. Why don't you meet me there?' Everything was always first-class." The dancer may have first been attracted to McNair's fame and wealth, but she soon became fond of his big smile and warm personality. "He had a great personality," the ex-business manager said. "Very nice guy. Very respectful, whether you were a millionaire or a dancer or a bartender." The dancer knew she wasn't McNair's only lover, but that doesn't make the heartbreak that came from his death any less real. "She really cared for him," the former business manager said. "He was not perfect, but he was a good guy."
His wife looks kind of pretty. Too bad that she was not enough for him & he had to hang with that psychotic Iranian chick. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090711/ap_on_sp_fo_ne/fbn_mcnair_funeral
Nobody knows what was going on with McNair and his wife. there are plenty of marriages which are done but not over where both parties are stepping out before reconciliation or moving on. Families break up but that doesn't mean he was a bad father. McNair was the victim of a terrible crime. Would the kids be less screwed if his wife killed him and herself? If he was shot coming home with a quart of Milk, hit by a car? People's judgments are people’s judgments. Reality is a screwed up girl murdered him and left his kids without a father. He was a victim of a terrible crime that has lasting repercussions on many families. That's the legacy of crimes of violence the end life and a chance to better ourselves and redeem ourselves while other make judgments because deep down the reason we stare at these train wrecks is we know full well it could have been us.
ESPN News crawl keeps saying that McNair's BAC was "twice the legal limit" at the time of his death, as if that means anything at all. It's only a legal limit if he's driving, fuckheads. You can't be too drunk to be shot in the face. (An interesting aside, my Firefox-provided spellchecker now recognizes "fuckhead")
I think it was just given as a point of reference, to explain how she was able to plug him without his being aware. Also, I'm not certain, but I'm pretty sure from the accounts I read earlier that they arrived separately at the place, she earlier & him later, and that yes he did drive himself to the condo. For what it's worth.